Sometimes despite your best intentions, getting your children to school can be difficult. If your child is reluctant to go to school, it can be challenging, but there are several approaches you can take to address this:

1. Open Communication: Talk to your child to understand the reasons behind their reluctance. It could be due to academic pressure, social issues, or other concerns.
2. Positive Reinforcement: Encourage and reward your child for attending school. Small incentives can motivate them to go.
3. Involve Them in Solutions: Ask your child for their input on what might make school more enjoyable or less stressful for them.
4. Work with the School: Collaborate with teachers and school counsellors to address any issues your child might be facing.
5. Create a Supportive Environment: Ensure your child feels supported at home. Help them with homework and be there to listen to their concerns.
6. Set Realistic Goals: Break down the school day into manageable parts and set small, achievable goals to help your child feel more in control.

It's important to be patient and understanding while working through this. Every child is different, so finding the right approach might take some time.